Have you ever wonder why life turn into a slow deadly nightmare for some of us in the middle of twenties.The reason might be varies,but the common consequences from it will be depression.When we are depressed,when our soul start to feel the impact from it,the one thing that we all will encounter in commen is loneliness.That is the toxic xenobiotic we might get from that complex process.
Those time,there are few common reaction that people have in as their choice.
The next thing that going to happen in their life,10 years from now will be from the choice they going to make in the middle of twenties.The time later aren't time to make decision anymore.It has it's own purpose and responsibilities..It will be too late.Some might become trapped in the dilemma ,some will be brave enough to by pass and over come it and the third group will be the one who just go with the flow with a pain deep inside their heart,(that wakes up with you in the morning everyday).They go with the flow unhappy playing the victim role.This is the most sucks group to be in.This is where majority of us are in, living it everyday.
Everyone realize and has the sense of truth,yet the environment,time,circumstances ,needs of money family and every single shit around them will make them to run throughout their life without knowing the reason,without unable to wake up peacefully next morning.If you never feel bad thinking about the flow and you really happy without any complain,having a chill beer with friends on weekends is more than enough for you,then you aren't a victim.That is life about after all.If they wish to go to the next level,its a different choice that they has to make at that time.It's not now ,so never think that further yet.
Thinking about the future gives anxiety to many of us.The best way to avoid that unnecessary feelings is by just be at the moment,the present now. The gratification from the rush of good hormones in our body, is the achievement at the moment.It has it's different levels.. Achievement is a time based event.Its infinity till your last breathe if your choice is to strike for more.Never judge your self by comparing with other.As I mentioned early,it's a different path for each one of us.If it's the same,there wont be anyone to work in a mortuary,no one will be working as a zookeeper..Your interested,your goal ,your achievement is totally different from the rest 6,999+ billion humans on earth. (wish they are not doubling the amount in anytime sooner)..So never compare your life with the success of others,it's not the same.You might be sleeping when he training with his guitar at 3am in the morning.You might be studying for exam when she's hitting the gym at 6pm.It's a different call for each of us.
Realizing it and never compare yourself with other is the key for real happiness.We get bored with everything around sooner.For most of,our goals and interest keep changing with time.They don't stay the same,but the fame that another person getting by doing the same thing everday and keep growing with it is what we wants too.We failed to realize that consistency with what we are doing is the path to success,and if you keep changing ,keeping a leg there and another here,it wont work for many unless you're a born multitasker and blessed to be successful in everything you pursue. .
Ok let me continue in awhile...
