Step out of your comfort zone

My latest hobby :)

Despite the fact that my photography sucks,yet I love to cherish the memories in the form of this new hobby..I thought  singledom will not last a lifetime,so I decided and went on a date with myself for 39 days.This time,there is no one to hold me back but myself solely. Surprisingly I met new people,new friends perhaps.I realized that friendships are paramount.I learnt new things from each one of them.It is always us that separates ourselves from others.

So,I took a step to break the barrier ,and you know what,it works well.I'm sucks at relationships too other than photography.Then I realized again that if you are uncomfortable spending time alone with yourself, what makes you think anyone else will feel comfortable spending time with you.Being happy alone does not happen overnight for me  especially with the fact that I'm recovering codependent.All this doesn't mean I don't love a girl.I still love her and I'm just taking sometime to know my self better so that I can take care of her and be a good partner ,better than before with her.


Being alone can be a positive force, turning you towards greater creativity and greater personal development. In this space that you call your own, you can grow to know and love yourself as a separate individual. One who is not dependent on another human being for your identity and does not fixate or keep moving around seeking pleasure, seeking comfort, and satisfaction from the energy of another being.The lesson I learnt and wish to share with everyone is-Step out of your comfort zone and rediscover yourself. 

by Lakdhes