Witnessing pregnancy,still birth,stillborn,delivery,caesarean -sec,it's complications,the laughter,joy ,pain and tears aren't new for me,perhaps anyone in medical field.Few weeks back,I called my mum and asked her something to clarify the thing that I always read from books,the extra burden of twin pregnancy.
"Did you suffered more with both of us in compare to while conceived with my elder sister?"
She replied, "Of cz,I can't bend,I can't move ,that vomit ,"and the list goes on..
When people make fun of my circumstances,when life seems hard,I told her once,"Maybe I was an extra,perhaps unwanted and that is why God sent me with along with another person.If I'm special,I would born alone like the rest,right?"
She mourned for a moment and uttered that,"Maybe you're too special and that is why you born as a twin.Maybe that is why you going tru life in much harder way then the rest,so that you will get what the rest won't get."
I just smiled looking at how an innocent mother tried to make her kid feel better.
She told me,"People who talk ill now will talk again in a nice manner when life change.Do one thing,ignore them twice,now and later". 'You either die a hero or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain they said'
I don't understand it back then,but now I do.
Once upon a time. Twinie 💛
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