Focus

How to manage our self...

Hie friends..Most of us think our lives accumulate.We think they are adding up to something.We think of our lives as being strung together like a long smoky train,so that we can add new freight cars when we're feeling right, and dump the others on a siding somewhere when we're not.Even me think that way..But somehow i realized that Life is now.Life is not later on.The more we hypnotize ourselves into thinking we have all the time in the world to do what we want to do,the more we sleepwalk past life's finest opportunities. Its all flows from the importance we attach to today.

Most of us ,however ,don't want it to be this way.-'Today I was at my best'.

If someone asked us if today can be used as a model to judge our entire life by,we would shriek, 'No Way!!It isn't one of my better days.Give me a year or two and I'll live a day,I'm certain of it, that you can use to represent my life."

How to change your attitude...

If you want to change yourself,its in your willingness to do very tiny things-but to do them today.You were born when you woke up,and you will die when you go to sleep.Its was designed this way,so that you could live your whole life in a day.Today is a microcosm of your entire life.It is your whole life in miniature.

Over the years I've used Arnold's idea of creating as a vision as a self motivational tool.'Create a vision of who you want to be,and then live into that picture as if it were already true.' If i didn't apply it,for sure I  can't go through each my days here.Life here was really bad.

The more you sweat in peacetime,the less you bleed in war.  J

Most of the time I never really focus.I constantly feel a kind of irritating psychic chaos because I keep trying to think of too many things at once.Life as a medical student seems to be that way.Not only medicine,a student life always will be this way right?..There's always too much up there on the screen of our mind.

When we laid a two-by four across a floor ,everybody there would walk across it and not fall,because our focus would be that we were going to walk that two-by four.

BUT…

 If we put that same two-by four 20 stories high between two building,only a few would make it because the focus would be on falling.

Focus is everything.

Maybe most of us tend to lose our focus in life,studies,relationship etc because we're perpetually worried about so many negative possibilities.To be honest ,I always do it.Rather than focusing on the two-by four,we worry about all the ramification of falling.Rather than focusing on our goal,our aims,we are distracted by our worries and fears.

But if we really focus on what we want,it will come into our life one day...Take Care friends...

By Lakdhes.