The Same Tribe Always Cheat You Alike

How To Negotiate and Buy Something For  A Cheaper Rate

The Same Tribe Always Cheat You Alike

I don't follow the regular pattern -

the alarm goes off, hit the snooze button,lay there for few minutes between the land of wake and sleep known as the hypnopompic state.I got up only when I had enough sleep but doesn't matter how long I sleep, most of the time,I felt groggy and disoriented ,thanks to sleep inertia.I wondered why I felt like I'm attending a series of never ending lectures while I'm sleeping.Everything that I studied the night before got synergized and came out as a single sentence in my dreams.When people asked me which book I referred ,I can't give a definite answer because it's a combination of few sources,linked together ,tanx to my vivid dreams.

I switched off my phone 30 minute before I went to bed.That's really helped to initiate a good sleep when melatonin pills(Fillfresh 2mg) and apple cider vinegar failed to do what they supposed to do.The moment I woke up,I switched on my phone and asked Google two thing.Yes,I don't check it by seeing,I asked.You don't have to own a fucking iphone.Even Google could do what Siri been doing dear Android users.

"what is the time now?"

"what is the temperature today?'

I can simply see it myself but Iron man and Jarvis really messed up my system.After all,starting my day like Tony Stark made my day most of the time.

The most important thing ,never get carried away with notification.The dopamine that you going to get from seeing them is purely illusion so I never start my day getting excited with likes and comments.It's purely a disastrous way to start you day but I won't blame it fully.There are so many people out there that kept posting a picture of them,especially with inappropriate clothes which is purely unnecessary unless you're doing it for a purpose like modelling.I know I know.I'm posting half naked  picture most of the time but come on,I'm a boy and I have a purpose for doing it.You might feel good about it but girls never know or might know but choose to ignore the fact that boys or perverts out there liking their inappropriate pictures for their own pervertedness.(you know what I mean).During my last holidays,I went out with a group of people.There was a boy,assume it boy A who constantly checking his Facebook and Instagram ,spent majority of the time talking about girls,their body and bla bla bla..I realized he lost his interest whenever  I talk about something useful with others.He was fucking turn off for me at that moment.There was another boy named Dorai.He seems  like a nice guy and he said something that still in my head to this moment."You seeing  girl's picture and imagining bad about them is almost the same like seeing someone taking shower in a secretly pervert way".

Your kids will never be happy or get  inspired to see such pictures of their parents in the future.Don't be a social fool and get into unnecessary problems.The dopamine that being released when you received a like or comment will never do good in long run.Don't believe me?Post a simple picture of quote and you will see the engagement that you been receiving for your inappropriate picture with 2,134 likes will ended up with  only 178 likes.This never apply for the nice girls with private profiles,having small circle of friends.This is for those who had a big circle of  14k ,40k,75k followers,creating no content,just uploading 2, 3 pictures per day with a caption 'she is wild as fire ,she is the queen,brown girl can wear shit bla bla bla'.Your intention clearly visible even from 3 miles away.. Men are pervert in one or another way girls..Indirectly,you teaching your kids to be another idiot like you. Hate me for being real but this thing is super useful for certain group of people.You don't get it?Those who went through PTSD or  acid attacked victims;this will be a life saving method to give them the drive to start another day like the normal people out there each morning.(If you're one of them and you felt trapped ,feel free to dm me.I can't help you in term of money but I can teach you how to be powerful and earn a good living by creating a market or help you monetizing your product or service into a valuable asset.I can get you connected with people that will really help you.I don't want to over sell but at least I would try).

I will take my own sweet time before I use my gadgets,mostly after I performed a mindful activities.

Soon,I'm going to chase every gays in my friend list.You can even forgive gays but those heterosexualist ,such guys are the most pervert breathing creatures on Earth.To my surprise,I encountered many of them recently.I wondered how they actually camouflaged among the rest all this while.It's their personal but the way each dm me is so fucking annoying..If  they tried the same in person,I can guarantee that they will ended up in hospital for the next 3 month with a broken jaw.I promise. They really have some sort of mental illness that we can't see with naked eyes.Just because I wish to treat human in a good way,they misuse the kindness.-P/s:  I'm freaking super straight!Motherf*ckers!

These guys aren't bisexual by the way.Those are some of the nicest people that I got to know in recent time.

The groggy day became super alert the moment I saw her name.For a moment,I thought she actually replied my story.I laughed over my overly  ambitious's hope and the day started.

If you can see it in your head,If you have the courage enough to speak about it,it will definitely 

happen.Blink*

Well ,I don't want to hide anything.See yourself,judge yourself.I wondered why we Malaysian always failed when someone examined us in person.Simple,I'm stupid enough,right?.Thanks Bangladesh.You don't know what you going to produce.Wait and see.This picture will be a history 5 years from now.Trust me.

I came back,felt fucked up saw the result.One thing I realized,the coffee on the right made me felt anxious and terrible when I took 4 of them cumulatively .The one in left doesn't give such feeling even when I took 5 at a go..I tried this for 3 days with all  different brands,with the same fasting condition and they appeared the same.The heart started to beats faster with more rapid breathing at the end of 4th packet.So,if you feeling the same during your day,cut your fucking caffeine. 

Price of Milo :Rm18(look at the size) 😥

The house looked terrible because I didn't pay much attention  past a month after the result came out.So I decided to clean them.First ,I need to get a broomstick because I broke the old one into 2 part in anger trying to kill a fucking cockroach on the result day.

50taka only.

Before 

After

Bachelor's life's misery. 

I guess my housemate equally been damaged by the result.That was a terrible way to see your rice cooker.

Bangladesh's "KTM"

Longest code ever.

That's how we pay the electricity bill here.Top up system.Make a mistake while keying in,your cortisol level increases 200 fold.

Had to keep the business on track as well even when I don't feel like doing much.

Ya,watch me.

While being lazy and felt fucked up cleaning ,Nikhil's like was a boost.By the way,this isn't dopamine.It's more into serotonin cascade.She only liked my comment tho not the rest,so it's not dopamine but serotonin.

Took a shower and went out again.This time,

I wanted to buy  fruits.When I first went and tried to buy it ,there was a boy.I bought it for 40tk each.I went to different shop,finished my shopping and I felt I wanted to get more Pomelo because my housemate will eat it as well.This time,the small boy wasn't there but a different guy was there.Much older ,talking with a man,seems like his friend.The moment I asked how much,he said 60tk.Just a moment,it was 40tk.I didn't say much but walked towards other shops.He kept screaming calling me asking how much I'm willing to give but I don't feel like entertaining  a cheap asshole.At the next shop,there was a small boy ,in his 10 or 12,trying to sell it for 70 tk.I asked him to give for at least 50tk and if he willing to give it for 50tk each ,I ensured him that I would buy 3.He refused.Another local customer came,the boy said the same price.The local customer got pissed off,cursed that little boy for selling that small sized Pamelo pricey and went away.I tried to get into his head,I told him if you don't sell it now ,it will get spoiled tomorrow because the fruit  already looked bad,almost going to spoil.Still he refused.(Today I just went back to see how he reacts.When I went, he tried to sell it to me for 40tk,I smiled and  walked off.No one ever buy his 6 Pomelos since yesterday and all went wasted.Karma is a bitch I guess).

The problem with people who trying to sell anything is,they try to negotiate in away that I see it as a prey and hunter mentality.It's unlike the victim and warrior mindset that I used for   daily life .When it's selling and buying involving negotiation ,everyone does the same,they try to turn you into a prey or trying not to get hunted.Thief is the extreme version of hunter but it only emerged if you being so naive.Most of the time,we human won't be that stupid unless a beautiful girl try to sell us something.

Days back,a volunteer from an organization stopped me asking for a donation.She looked gorgeous honestly but I only took 10taka from my wallet and tried to put into the donation box.

"You're a foreigner and you only giving 10tk?"she asked.

"At least if not 1000taka,a 100tk will do right?"she continued.I knew she saw the 1000tk notes in my wallet because I just came out withdrew money from the bank .

Beauty might turn men  blind but not me girl,"What will you do if I donate you extra?"I asked.

Before she tried to utter her reply,I continued,"Two thing will happen.Either you will use it to fulfill the vision ,come and ask me again or you going to waste my money if  your mission doesn't work out or  if it doesn't reach the right people",I explained with a fucked up face.

She turned to her friend,another activist ,said something to her ear,swearing me maybe.?

This hunter and prey mindset  tend to work some extend in such activities as well.I knew the founder of It's Humanity Foundation from Dhaka.That guy doesn't simply went to street and ask money,he turned the ladies with skills into something more meaningful.He taught the poor ladies to use the skills to create product from trash,sell them online,share the profit with them,giving education for under privilege kids and much more.If he can do it in such a noble way,what's wrong with the rest?

You might came a cross this notice in supermarket,'limited  -only 4 piece person'.When they remove it,people only buy 1 or 2 of the same  product but when they put such statement once a while for certain product,human brings their family member,asked their kid to grab 4 and the will buy 4  themselves and paying at different counters.You might witnessed it before.Such urgency only increases sales.We have seen it at KTM,TBS etc  with people screaming ,"last 2 seats left!"..Such pseudo- urgency creates a sensation that you have to buy it before other get them.

So when someone tries to negotiate with you,the easy way not to become their prey at the same time increase your chances of getting it is by not going far away from the price limit that they set and make it clear to their mind that you isn't the best candidate for their tricks.For an example,if they said it's 100tk,you just have to let them know,"I'm sorry,I only wanted to buy it for 60tk not more",Either you will get for 70tk ,the average or 60tk the price you bid  or the worse case scenario you won't buy anything from a corrupt seller.Either way,it's more like a win-win situation but trust me,you won't go with an empty hand with this but if you set it as low as 40tk,they won't compromise.When I see some people being evil,I tried to make them give me discount without they actually realizing it.For an example,I will buy a  3 packet of 12tk coffee  along with a product which is 25tk.The total will 61tk and they will give it for 60tk.I used it for even larger amount which will make them give me 90tk or 80 tk change in return.Majority will give the discount and small percentage of people will be stingy.This won't work in hypermarket but if it's a tax free small grocery shops,it works for certain extends.Whatever it is ,I will feel the fun trying and doing the experiment because somehow I will learn how people react and behave..The 10 year old boy tried to be great by selling it for higher price for the sake of himself.Maybe he might feels good or his father might praise him or he try to use the extra money that he just cheated to his own use.The older guy might try to show off his friend this cheating skills.It's common around the world people trying their best to make more profit from a foreigner .I have seen it in Batu Ferringi ,Langkawi ,Pulau Pangkor etc where the price is much cheaper for the locals than the foreigners.What goes around comes around right?

When a single rickshaw puller set the price high,every one around him set the same price.The only way you can get a cheaper rate is by walking far from the group to a guy who never heard the conversation otherwise everybody became a tribe to cheat you  alike.Unlike Malaysia,people here have shops of the same type around the same area..If one shop selling clothes,every shop in the row sell the same shit.If one selling cement,the whole area sells cement but in Malaysia,they usually  don't do it.They move far away from the same type of shop to avoid competition and increase their profit.

During negotiation,lot of variables came in place.Their mood,their gender ,your gender,if you're a girl,if you can speak their language and even if you're a girl,the odd of outcome varies for girl that looks dark and for the girl that looks fair.People might  object this,but that's the truth that I kept seeing for years.The easy way to break the pattern not entering their prey method is by giving a clear statement of objection in a subtle way using alteration of tones,ways you express it.Most of the time the persuasion works for me.

Before I end this post,I should remind my self of this day,4th Dec.I wonder if next year thing would be same,but this is consider a special day because it's Priyanka's birthday.She is an unique girl I encountered in recent time.When someone entered in my radar,I always evaluate them to certain extend because I don't trust anyone especially girls.No one can screw a boy's life stronger than a girl.Majority of them got into the entertainment category,ambivalent or toxic people but this girl was completely different.I kept testing her but she remains the same.She is one of the nicest friend I have ever seen in recent time.I don't think she will see this for now,but Priyanka,if you're reading this in the future,thanks alot for being my Telugu teacher and many more happy returns of the day girl.Stay safe and stay blessed forever.

I don't forget anything unless I decided to.

Little time left

To think clearly about the future,we need to clean up the language that we use in labeling the beliefs we had in the past.