Lakdhesz: One Key Reason For a Happy Relationship?

Recently my friend asked me,"How to keep your partner happy when you're in relationship?
What is that one key reason for a happy relationship?"

How could I answer her? My relationship itself was disastrous;I thought and smiled to myself.

Well ,failures give you more lessons than winning. Accumulation of lessons from failures leads to a sustainable success in my point of view.

Few days back,I came across a study.It was conducted on undergraduate and they were asked to give their opinion.Guess the topic?

The one key factor for a happy long term relationship.

50% said love,30% said compassion,some said security, few picked financially stable and the list goes on.Interestingly, 1% said sex.

What does the study shows?
I felt...only 1% of students were honest. 😅

Ok truth apart.
In my point of view and experience,the one key for a happy and healthy relationship is,
The happiness of your partner.
If she or he is happy , automatically you will be happy and vice versa.

All these factors, if look deeply resides to this one factor; Happiness of our partner. A happy relationship isn't about you.It's about others,your better half.If you know this, relationship will nourish.

Anything like financial problem, family issue,third person issue , studies or what ever reason that causes unhappiness in you or your partner will disrupt the happiness of the other and your relationship overall.

It's simple yet hard for everyone to understand because most of the time, it's about us.About me.

For long term sustainability,its:

Not you or me,its US.

My ex told me once, it's not us, it's you and me. That is why she's an ex today.

For long term happiness,
Their happiness secure your happiness and the overall happiness of the a relationship.