Persuasion

Despite hw mny times I told him,he stil wanted to do that shitty busnss.For me,if u work 10 hours in small scale busnss u shld earn atlst 200 bcks per day.If u spent 10 hours under hot sun n earnin 50bcks,it means u're swiming in red ocean,not blue.End of the day,he askd me,'if u can manipulate others,why u din do the same n sustain ur relationshp?' 😁Manipulation,persuasion shld nvr be used in relatshp n wit real ppl othrwse whle life wil b fake.
He reminded me this grl..She used to say tat she cant pretend as me.She cant sweet tlk as me.
On Chrtsms eve yrs bck,whn we went 4 dinner, instd of chckn thy gv sirloin steak,whch was clearly a mstke.She gt mad cz i talkd ncly wit the chef instd of scldin him.I didnt do tat cz I tot what if he spit on the food b4 he serve it..Once,jst befre we board the flight,the chckpoint lady literlly tk the extra mny tat passngr kept,not allwin leavin the cntry wit more than 500tk.She said its their new law.Frm far I saw she divided the mny wit the male wrkrs n wit their mouth full on smelly paan n devilish look,raisin voice def wont hlp..She strtd scldin them n makin chaos.I dnt wish to do the same cz thy dnt want to let her board the flght.Bngla is capable of anytin if u challenge their ego.I tlkd in a nice way tat we're stdnts n we need cash to cm bck etc n gt it solved bt tru out the journey she said im cowrd.Once a rickshw guy wnt over speed n hit a car despte my warnin to slow dwn,almst gt herself killed cz she felt on the opp side of road.Once im sure she is fine,I whck him rit on the spot.She said im an idiot for shwin anger such a way.I b myself almst al the time n these r few exmp hw it went bad almst al the time.For me I knw what im doing n hw I shld bhve at moments,bt othrs nvr understnd my act.
I learnt;U can lose in order to make a real soul win,u can hurt someone if u sense it will bring them good in long run,u can make urself look lk a fool for the benefit of few people,u can let people humiliate u for the goodness of ur own but doesnt matter what,u should never let someone take u for granted.Selfishness should be payed equally doesnt matter whch way.You decide ur way.